C.S. Lewis once said,
"Comparison is the thief of joy."
Psalm 37 says:
Fret not yourself because of evildoers
be not envious of
wrongdoers!
For they will soon fade like the grass
and wither like the green herb.
Trust in the Lord, and do good; dwell in
the land and befriend faithfulness.
Delight yourself in the Lord, and he
will give you the desires of your heart.
Christine Caine tweeted, "The goal is to run YOUR race and finish
YOUR course. Stay in YOUR lane; stop looking over YOUR shoulder. Fix YOUR eyes
on Jesus!
I have been reflecting on all three of things for a couple of months.
In my experience, nothing will derail you quicker from the course God
has set out for you than looking around at other people and comparing your path
to theirs.
We can so easily forget the purpose God set before us when we start
looking at someone else and their purpose and thinking, “I wish I could do
that.”
C.S. Lewis is definitely high up on my list of wise people and he said
it so simply. Comparison is the thief of joy. Whether you admit it or not, I
bet you’ve experienced this. You’re excited about the possibilities of a new
opportunity or the vision God’s given you UNTIL you look over and see your
friend doing something completely different and think, “She’s/He’s so much
better at that than me….”
God called you for a specific purpose! A SPECIFIC PURPOSE! By the very
nature of that statement you can’t compare it to someone else’s purpose. So why
do we?
I have Psalm 37 posted in my office, because I need to read it almost
every day. The first two verses speak to comparison, but I continually have to
remind myself of verse 3, “Trust in the Lord and do good; dwell in the land and
befriend faithfulness”
The word "befriend" here also means "cultivate." What the Psalmist is
telling us is to dwell in the land (wherever you are with God) and cultivate
faithfulness in whatever he’s called you to do.
Someone pointed out to me once that as Christians, so many time we want
the result without the process. For me, this means that we want to reach the
pinnacle without laboring in the climb.
What has called you to do right now? Not what do you want to one day be
doing. What do you need to cultivate faithfulness in today?
Christine Caine summed it up best for me with her tweet. When I’m
frustrated with something in my life, I can usually trace it back to taking my
eyes of MY purpose.
We need to stop looking around comparing our journey with Christ with
everyone else’s and get to OUR OWN purpose. God created every part of YOU! Your
talents, your knowledge, your personality were all created to fulfill your
unique purpose! THAT’S AMAZING!!
How much more effective would we all be at spreading the Gospel if we
stopped the comparison and started cultivating faithfulness in what God has
called us to do?
Katelyn, your message spoke directly to me! Thank you for sharing your insight with others. God has given you a talent with words and a heart that is tuned to Him. That combination indicates His purpose for you.
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